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If You Love Me, Obey Me

From the series “The Commands of Christ — Love in Action”

The love of God is not a feeling we carry. It is a life we surrender.
It does not ask for admiration. It calls for obedience.
Love that does not obey is not love at all.

“If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.”
John 14:15, NASB 1995

Jesus didn’t say this to burden His disciples.
He said it to anchor them.
Because love for Christ is not measured in passion, eloquence, or emotion—but in faithfulness.

To follow Jesus is not to admire His teachings.
It is to obey His voice.


There is a kind of faith that applauds Christ from a distance.
There is a kind of love that sings on Sunday and wanders on Monday.
But the love that saves—the love born of the Spirit—is a love that listens, follows, repents, and obeys.

“Why do you call Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say?”
Luke 6:46

This is the question that echoes through every age of the Church.
Not, “Do you feel love for Me?”
But, “Will you do what I say?”


Jesus’ commands are not suggestions. They are not optional for the mature or the zealous. They are for every disciple who has been born of the Spirit and adopted into the family of God.

“For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments; and His commandments are not burdensome.”
1 John 5:3

True love doesn’t argue with the Word.
It doesn’t try to explain away obedience with theology.
It bows. It follows. It trusts.


The early Church understood this well. Their love was visible, not because they claimed it, but because they lived it.

The Didache (c. AD 50–100):
“There are two ways: one of life, one of death. This is the way of life: First, you shall love God who made you; second, your neighbor as yourself. And whatsoever you would not have done to you, do not do to another… walk according to the commandments.”
Didache, Ch. 1–2

Irenaeus (c. 180 AD):
“Those who love Him walk in His commandments. For love does not destroy the Law, but fulfills it through obedience.”
Against Heresies, Book IV

These early believers did not separate doctrine from practice.
They didn’t ask how little they could obey and still be saved.
They asked how deeply they could obey to show their love.


So what does this mean for us?

It means love cannot remain vague.
It must be expressed in action—in forgiving, in speaking truth, in denying self, in remaining faithful, in keeping His words even when it costs us everything.

It means discipleship isn’t just about knowing what Jesus said—it’s about doing it.

“But the one who has listened and has not acted accordingly is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation…”
Luke 6:49

And it means this: the clearest evidence that the love of God abides in us… is that we obey.


📚 Sources & References

If You Love Me, Obey Me

Scripture (NASB 1995):

  • John 14:15 – “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.”
  • 1 John 5:3 – “This is the love of God, that we keep His commandments…”
  • Luke 6:46–49 – “Why do you call Me, ‘Lord, Lord’ and do not do what I say?”

Ante-Nicene Sources:

  • The Didache, Chapters 1–2.
    “There are two ways… walk according to the commandments.”
    [Available at: EarlyChristianWritings.com]
  • Irenaeus, Against Heresies, Book IV.
    “Love does not destroy the Law, but fulfills it through obedience.”
    [Available at: NewAdvent.org]
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Devotions, Family Devotionals

🏡 Kingdom Family Devotional — Day 65

“For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened.”

Matthew 7:8 NASB1995

🌿 Strengthening Faith at Home

This verse gives a steady anchor for children learning to pray: God listens. As a mother, remind them that they are part of the everyone Jesus speaks of.

Teach them that delayed answers aren’t denials—but invitations to draw nearer in trust.

📖 Talk About It:

  • Has your child ever experienced an answered prayer?
  • How can we celebrate faithfulness even in the waiting?

🧺 Kingdom Practice:

Write down prayer requests together and revisit them weekly—celebrating what God is doing, even in silence.

✍️ Prayer:

Lord, teach our family to believe Your promises. Let our children grow up confident that You are near and faithful. Amen.

Devotions, Teen Devotions

😎 Kingdom Teen Devotional — Day 65

“For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened.”

Matthew 7:8 NASB1995

🔓 A Promise That Still Stands

No one is too messed up, too late, or too young for this promise. Everyone who seeks—finds. Period. That includes you.

The question isn’t whether God hears—it’s whether you’ll keep seeking even when you don’t feel Him.

🔍 Real Talk:

  • What’s something you’ve been afraid to ask God?
  • Have you stopped knocking too soon?

✍️ Prayer:

Father, remind me that Your door is always open. Make me bold to seek You again. Amen.

Children's Devotionals, Devotions

🧒 Kids Devotional — Day 65

“Everyone who asks will get what they ask for. Everyone who looks will find. Everyone who knocks will have the door opened.”

Matthew 7:8 (Paraphrased)

🎁 Everyone Means YOU

When Jesus says everyone, that means even you! He promises to hear your voice and open the door when you knock.

🧭 Kingdom Tip:

Don’t be afraid to talk to God. He loves to hear from you!

💡 Think About It:

  • What’s something you really want to ask God about?
  • How does it feel to know He listens?

✨ Let’s Pray:

God, thank You for always hearing me. I know You love me and I trust You. Amen.

Kingdom Discipleship, Kingdom Living

Preparing the Bride and Her Children for His Return

Passing on a Living Hope and Holy Anticipation

We are not just raising children—we are preparing the Bride. Kingdom legacy is more than good values or sound doctrine; it is preparation for a holy wedding. Christ is coming for a people ready, radiant, and faithful, and it is our joyful task to pass on that expectancy to those who come after us.

“Let us rejoice and exult and give Him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and His Bride has made herself ready.”
Revelation 19:7


We Prepare by Living Watchful Lives

The early Church lived in expectation, often greeting one another with “Maranatha”—Come, Lord Jesus! Their lives were marked by urgency, holiness, and longing for His return.

“Keep your lamps burning… for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.”
Luke 12:35–40


We Teach Our Children to Long for the King

We don’t just teach them how to live—we teach them why: because the King is returning. That truth gives weight to obedience, urgency to our days, and hope to our suffering.

“The Spirit and the Bride say, ‘Come!’”
Revelation 22:17

“Train the children not only to live well but to die ready—to greet the coming King without shame.”
Hermas, Mandate 13


We Model Readiness, Not Complacency

Kingdom legacy means watching together. It means preparing hearts, not just calendars. Our homes must echo with a hopeful cry: “Even so, come, Lord Jesus.”

“Let the Bride remain pure, for the time is short and the crown is near.”
Clement of Rome, 1 Clement 50


The Legacy We Leave Is the One We Live

Faithfulness in this hour prepares the next generation for that Day. When Christ returns, may He find a generation raised to know Him, love Him, and long for His appearing.


What We Can Learn

  1. The Church is a Bride being made ready for the King.
  2. Children must be discipled in hope, not just morals.
  3. Readiness is modeled in how we live today.
  4. Legacy ends with longing: “Come, Lord Jesus.”

Sources:

  • The Holy Bible — Revelation 19:7–9; Revelation 22:17; Luke 12:35–40; Titus 2:11–13; 2 Timothy 4:8
  • Hermas, Mandate 13
  • Clement of Rome, 1 Clement 50
  • Didache, ch. 16
  • Ignatius of Antioch, Letter to the Philadelphians

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Devotions, Family Devotionals

🏡 Kingdom Family Devotional — Day 64

“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.”

Matthew 7:7 NASB1995

🕊 Building a Family That Seeks

As mothers guiding older children, we can model prayer that is bold, specific, and persistent. Not because God needs persuading, but because our hearts are formed as we seek Him together.

Let’s encourage our children to keep asking and trust that their prayers matter.

📖 Talk About It:

  • What’s something your child is praying for?
  • How can you encourage them when the answer doesn’t come quickly?

🧺 Kingdom Practice:

Set a time this week to ask God together for something on your hearts—and trust Him with the outcome.

✍️ Prayer:

Father, grow our faith as a family. Help us seek You more than answers and trust that You are good. Amen.

Devotions, Teen Devotions

😎 Kingdom Teen Devotional — Day 64

“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.”

Matthew 7:7 NASB1995

🙌 When Heaven Hears

Jesus isn’t offering a vending machine faith—He’s offering relationship. Asking, seeking, knocking—it’s about communion with God, not just getting stuff.

Keep knocking. Even if you feel ignored, you’re not. He’s working in the waiting.

🔍 Real Talk:

  • What have you been praying about lately?
  • Are you still seeking, or have you given up?

✍️ Prayer:

God, I don’t always get answers right away, but I choose to keep knocking. Grow my trust in You. Amen.

Children's Devotionals, Devotions

🧒 Kids Devotional — Day 64

“Ask, and you will get it. Look, and you will find it. Knock, and the door will open.”

Matthew 7:7 (Paraphrased)

🚪 Knock-Knock!

Have you ever knocked on someone’s door? You expect it to open, right? Jesus says when we talk to God—when we ask, look, and knock—He hears us!

🧭 Kingdom Tip:

Keep asking God for help. He always listens, even when the answer takes time.

💡 Think About It:

  • What do you want to ask God for?
  • How can you keep looking for His answer this week?

✨ Let’s Pray:

Jesus, thank You that I can talk to You anytime. Help me keep asking and trusting You. Amen.

Devotions, Women's Devotionals

🌿 Kingdom Living Devotional — Day 64

“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.”

Matthew 7:7 NASB1995

🔍 The Kingdom Invitation

Jesus invites us to a posture of persistence—not because God is unwilling, but because our seeking shapes us. He is not a distant King who must be convinced, but a loving Father who delights when we come.

🏛 Ante-Nicene Example

The early church prayed boldly, trusting the Spirit’s guidance. They asked not just for needs, but for courage, healing, and wisdom to endure. Their prayers fueled their mission.

💭 Reflect:

  • Are you asking with confidence?
  • What might God be teaching you through the waiting?

✨ Prayer:

Father, I come with open hands. Teach me to ask, seek, and knock in faith—trusting Your perfect timing. Amen.

Kingdom Discipleship, Kingdom Living

The Fruit of Generational Faithfulness

How Legacy Is Measured Not in Success, but in Steadfast Obedience Over Time

In a world that values instant results and visible achievement, the Kingdom of God measures fruitfulness differently. The true mark of a disciple-maker isn’t popularity or power—but faithfulness over time, especially in how the truth is carried forward to the next generation.

“His faithfulness continues through all generations.”
Psalm 100:5


Fruit Grows Slowly, But Surely

Faithful discipleship takes time. Seeds must be planted, watered, and tended—often in hidden, unseen places. We may not always see the harvest, but we are called to sow in hope and obedience.

“Let us not grow weary in doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.”
Galatians 6:9

“Let the farmer be your example—he labors not only for himself, but for his children.”
Clement of Rome, 1 Clement 19


Legacy Is Not Measured in Numbers, but in Depth

Some teach many. Others raise one faithful child. Both are Kingdom work. The goal is not to impress others, but to pass on the faith uncorrupted, full of love and truth.

“You, however, continue in what you have learned… knowing from whom you learned it.”
2 Timothy 3:14


We Stand on the Faithfulness of Those Who Came Before

None of us walks alone. We are the fruit of others’ labors—of mothers, fathers, pastors, friends, and saints who prayed, taught, and suffered for our sake. We now become that bridge for those after us.

“We are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses… let us run with endurance the race set before us.”
Hebrews 12:1


The Fruit of Faithfulness Remains

Faithfulness is never wasted. It leaves a fragrance in families, churches, and cultures that outlasts the disciple-maker. Even when forgotten by man, it is remembered by God.

“The righteous will be remembered forever.”
Psalm 112:6


What We Can Learn

  1. Faithfulness is the foundation of legacy.
  2. Depth, not visibility, defines lasting fruit.
  3. We carry the baton from those before—and must pass it onward.
  4. God honors steady obedience over flashy success.

Sources:

  • The Holy Bible — Psalm 100:5; Psalm 112:6; Galatians 6:9; 2 Timothy 3:14–17; Hebrews 12:1–2
  • Clement of Rome, 1 Clement 19, 58
  • Hermas, Mandate 10
  • Didache, ch. 15
  • Ignatius of Antioch, Letter to the Magnesians

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