Kingdom Discipleship, Love In Action

Do Not Judge Hypocritically

From the series “The Commands of Christ — Love in Action”

“Do not judge, so that you will not be judged.”
Matthew 7:1, NASB 1995

This verse has become one of the most misused and misunderstood words of Christ—quoted by those who reject accountability and often avoided by those who are called to speak truth. But Jesus was not forbidding judgment. He was forbidding hypocrisy.

He was not calling His people to silence.
He was calling them to purity of heart before speaking.

“Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?”
Matthew 7:3

The command is not “never judge,” but “judge with righteous judgment.” (John 7:24)
To love as Christ commands is to speak truth—not with pride, but with humility.
Not with arrogance, but with a heart willing to be examined first.


Hypocritical judgment crushes.
It condemns without compassion.
It sees clearly in others but is blind to its own sin.
It says, “Let me fix you,” while refusing to be sanctified.

“First take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.”
Matthew 7:5

This is not a call to silence truth—it is a call to truth that flows from repentance.


The early Church knew this danger.
They preached boldly—but they also examined themselves continually.
They spoke of sin—but never from superiority.

Clement of Rome (c. AD 96):
“Let each of us examine himself first… for judgment must begin with the household of God.”
1 Clement, Ch. 56

The Didache (c. AD 50–100):
“Do not hate any man; but some you are to reprove, and others to pray for. Yet do nothing without examining yourself first.”
Didache, Ch. 2–3

Judgment without self-awareness is dangerous.
Correction without humility is damaging.
But silence in the name of comfort is not love—it is cowardice.


To obey Christ here is to walk a narrow path:
We are called to confront sin with clean hands and a broken heart.
We are called to uphold righteousness without self-righteousness.
We are called to correct others only as those who are also under correction.


So before we speak, we must kneel.
Before we confront, we must repent.
And if we are unwilling to let God deal with us first, we have no business pointing at the sins of others.

Because love does not seek to shame.
Love seeks to restore.
And judgment without mercy is not Kingdom love—it is Pharisaical pride.


📚 Sources & References

Do Not Judge Hypocritically

Scripture (NASB 1995):

  • Matthew 7:1–5 – “Do not judge… first take the log out of your own eye…”
  • John 7:24 – “Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment.”

Ante-Nicene Sources:

  • Clement of Rome, 1 Clement, Ch. 56.
    “Let each of us examine himself first… judgment must begin with the household of God.”
    [Available at: NewAdvent.org]
  • The Didache, Chapters 2–3.
    “Do not hate… do nothing without examining yourself first.”
    [Available at: EarlyChristianWritings.com]

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🌿 Kingdom Living Devotional — Day 73

“So then, you will know them by their fruits.”

Matthew 7:20 NASB1995

🍇 The Evidence is in the Fruit

Jesus brings it home again—fruit is proof. Not charisma. Not theology degrees. Not the crowd they draw. True disciples are known by the fruit of their lives.

Do your actions match your confession? Is the love of Christ visible in how you treat others, respond to stress, or use your time?

🕊 Ante-Nicene Insight:

The early Christians were known not by labels but by love. Even their persecutors recognized something divine in their lives.

💭 Reflect:

  • What fruit is visible to others in your life?
  • Is there a gap between what I say and how I live?

✨ Prayer:

Lord, make my life speak of You. Let the fruit of my heart match the truth I believe. Amen.

Children's Devotionals, Devotions

🧒 Kids Devotional — Day 73

“You will know them by their fruits.”

Matthew 7:20 (Paraphrased)

🍌 People Show Who They Are

Jesus says you can tell who someone really is by what they do. Just like we know a tree is an apple tree because it grows apples!

If someone is kind, gentle, honest—that’s good fruit! And you can grow that too by staying close to Jesus.

🌟 Kingdom Tip:

Let Jesus help you grow fruit people can see—like sharing, helping, and telling the truth.

💬 Think About It:

  • What fruit did you show today?
  • Who can see Jesus in the way you live?

✨ Let’s Pray:

Jesus, help me grow fruit that shows I belong to You. I want others to see You in me. Amen.

Devotions, Teen Devotions

😎 Kingdom Teen Devotional — Day 73

“So then, you will know them by their fruits.”

Matthew 7:20 NASB1995

🌳 The Real Test Isn’t What They Say

Jesus makes it clear: actions reveal truth. You can wear a cross, quote Bible verses, and still live fruitless. What grows from your life shows who’s really in charge.

Don’t be fooled by image—yours or anyone else’s. Ask: what fruit is my life producing? What fruit do I admire in others?

🔎 Real Talk:

  • Who are you becoming?
  • Would someone know you follow Jesus just by how you live?

🙏 Prayer:

God, don’t let me hide behind words. Let my life prove who I belong to. Make my fruit real. Amen.

Devotions, Family Devotionals

🏡 Kingdom Family Devotional — Day 73

“So then, you will know them by their fruits.”

Matthew 7:20 NASB1995

🍎 A Family Known by Its Fruit

Moms, our homes tell a story. Our children may memorize Bible verses, but it’s the daily fruit of love, patience, repentance, and kindness that declares who we really follow.

This verse reminds us that our witness as a family begins in what we practice, not just what we profess. When neighbors, relatives, or friends observe us, may they see a tree rooted in Christ.

🗣 Family Conversation:

  • What fruit is our home producing?
  • Is it nourishing to others or bitter to the taste?

👣 Kingdom Practice:

Practice one visible act of love today as a household. Let someone witness the fruit of Jesus in your family.

🙏 Prayer:

Lord, let our home be a tree that bears good fruit. May our children grow in grace and truth, seen through everyday love. Amen.


Kingdom Discipleship, Love In Action

Take Up Your Cross Daily

From the series “The Commands of Christ — Love in Action”

“If anyone wants to come after Me, he must deny himself, take up his cross daily, and follow Me.”
Luke 9:23, NASB 1995

This is not a call to comfort.
It is not an invitation to moral improvement.
It is a summons to die.

To follow Christ is to walk the road He walked.
There is no other path to life but the one that leads through death—death to self, to sin, to pride, to reputation, to everything the world says is valuable.

The cross is not a symbol of inconvenience.
It is a tool of execution.

And Jesus didn’t say, “Take it up once.”
He said, “Daily.”


The command to deny yourself flies in the face of everything our culture worships.
The world says, “Love yourself. Express yourself. Exalt yourself.”
Christ says, “Crucify yourself.”

Not literally, but spiritually.
Not in despair, but in obedience.

“Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.”
Galatians 5:24

This is the heart of discipleship.
Not that we add Jesus to our lives—but that we surrender our lives to Him completely.


To take up your cross daily means you no longer belong to yourself.
Your time. Your body. Your rights. Your dreams.
All laid down in loving surrender.

“He died for all, so that those who live would no longer live for themselves, but for Him who died and rose on their behalf.”
2 Corinthians 5:15

The early Church did not water this down.
They didn’t lure people in with promises of ease.
They preached Christ—and Him crucified. And they embraced suffering, rejection, and even death, because they had already died to this world.


Ignatius of Antioch (c. AD 107):
“Let me be food for the wild beasts… that I may be found the pure bread of Christ. I no longer desire to live according to the flesh, but to suffer for Christ.”
Letter to the Romans, Ch. 4

Tertullian (c. AD 200):
“To bear the name of Christ is to bear the burden of the cross… not only in suffering but in denying our sinful nature daily.”
On the Resurrection of the Flesh, Ch. 23

They did not cling to their comfort.
They clung to the cross.
Because they knew: to lose your life for Christ is to find it.


This is not a one-time prayer.
It is a daily surrender.
It’s not about perfection—but persistence.

Every day, you wake up and lay your life down again.
Every day, you choose obedience over pride, holiness over comfort, truth over popularity.

And every day, the world may look at you and see loss.
But heaven sees love.

Because no one loves Christ more than the one who is willing to die for Him—and live for Him every single day.


📚 Sources & References

Take Up Your Cross Daily

Scripture (NASB 1995):

  • Luke 9:23 – “Deny yourself, take up your cross daily…”
  • Galatians 5:24 – “Those who belong to Christ have crucified the flesh…”
  • 2 Corinthians 5:15 – “No longer live for themselves, but for Him…”

Ante-Nicene Sources:

  • Ignatius of Antioch, Letter to the Romans, Ch. 4.
    “Let me be food for the wild beasts… I no longer desire to live according to the flesh.”
    [Available at: EarlyChristianWritings.com]
  • Tertullian, On the Resurrection of the Flesh, Ch. 23.
    “To bear the name of Christ is to bear the burden of the cross…”
    [Available at: NewAdvent.org]
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Devotions, Women's Devotionals

🌿 Kingdom Living Devotional — Day 72

“Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.”

Matthew 7:19 NASB1995

🔥 Fruitlessness Has Consequences

Jesus doesn’t mince words. A fruitless life isn’t neutral—it’s dangerous. Trees without good fruit aren’t just unproductive; they’re destined for judgment.

This isn’t about perfection, but direction. A life truly rooted in Christ will bear fruit. Not instantly, but inevitably. Let His Spirit cultivate growth in your heart.

🕊 Ante-Nicene Insight:

Early Christians didn’t settle for belief alone. They lived lives of sacrificial love, purity, and holiness—fruit that pointed unmistakably to Christ.

💭 Reflect:

  • Am I making excuses for fruitlessness?
  • What fruit is the Holy Spirit trying to grow in me right now?

✨ Prayer:

Lord, prune away anything unfruitful in me. Let my life glorify You with lasting fruit. Amen.

Children's Devotionals, Devotions

🧒 Kids Devotional — Day 72

“If a tree doesn’t make good fruit, it gets chopped down.”

Matthew 7:19 (Paraphrased)

✂️ Fruit or Firewood?

Jesus says trees that don’t grow good fruit are cut down. That means it matters what kind of life we live! He wants our lives to show love, kindness, and truth.

🌟 Kingdom Tip:

Good choices are like growing good fruit. When we follow Jesus, we grow something beautiful.

💬 Think About It:

  • What good things did you do today?
  • What would Jesus say about your fruit?

✨ Let’s Pray:

Jesus, help me grow strong and kind. I want to be a tree full of Your love. Amen.

Devotions, Teen Devotions

😎 Kingdom Teen Devotional — Day 72

“Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.”

Matthew 7:19 NASB1995

🚫 Fruitless Isn’t Harmless

Jesus’ warning hits hard: No fruit = no life. Being a Christian in name only doesn’t cut it. If there’s no growth, no change, no love—it’s not faith, it’s dead weight.

Don’t fear this verse—respond to it. If you belong to Christ, fruit will come. Let Him till the hard ground and nourish what’s weak.

🔎 Real Talk:

  • Are you bearing real fruit—or just wearing a label?
  • What needs to be surrendered for growth?

🙏 Prayer:

God, don’t let me settle for a fruitless life. Shape me into someone who shows You through every part of who I am. Amen.

Devotions, Family Devotionals

🏡 Kingdom Family Devotional — Day 72

“Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.”

Matthew 7:19 NASB1995

🌱 Raising Fruitful Lives

Mothers, we are gardeners of hearts. This warning from Jesus reminds us: a fruitless life is not a neutral one—it’s one in danger. Our role isn’t to produce fruit in our children, but to cultivate the soil of their hearts and lead them to the true Vine.

Don’t fear this verse—use it to stir urgency and hope. Every moment we point our children to Christ matters.

🗣 Family Conversation:

  • What does it mean to bear fruit?
  • How can we help each other stay connected to Jesus?

👣 Kingdom Practice:

Choose one way this week to help your child walk out their faith—whether in words, forgiveness, or kindness.

🙏 Prayer:

Lord, make our home a place of fruitfulness. May we grow in You and teach our children to do the same. Amen.