God Is Love, Kingdom Discipleship

God Is Love: The Source, Standard, and Sustainer of True Love

From the series “The Love of God: Revealed, Received, and Radiated”

If we begin anywhere else, we will get everything else wrong.

God’s love is not just one part of who He is. He is not love in balance with other traits, as though His mercy and His justice take turns. Scripture doesn’t leave that option open. It says plainly and without apology: “God is love” (1 John 4:8).

That statement does not mean God overlooks sin. It does not mean He is permissive or pliable. It means that everything He does—whether mercy or judgment, kindness or discipline—flows from a heart that is eternally loving, eternally faithful, and eternally holy.

God is not waiting to become more loving.
He is not learning to be more gracious.
He is not stirred by your behavior into affection.
He is love—unchanging, eternal, and perfect.

The world has taught many of us to view God’s love as uncertain. It offers a version of God who is moody, conditional, and temperamental—always watching and waiting to withdraw from the sinner or the struggling saint. But the love of God is not like the love of men. It does not fluctuate. It cannot be manipulated. It flows from His being—not from your performance.

“If we are faithless, He remains faithful, for He cannot deny Himself.”
2 Timothy 2:13

God’s love was not awakened by creation—it is the reason for it. It was not born at the cross—it was revealed there. And it is not sustained by our strength—but by His unchanging character.


To see this love clearly, we must look at the Son.

“God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.”
Romans 5:8

The life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ reveal the Father’s love—not a sentimental emotion, but a holy, pursuing compassion that lays itself down for the undeserving.

Jesus did not come to change God’s mind about you. He came to show you what had always been true about God’s heart. He came to seek and to save. He came to serve and to give. He came to call, not to coerce. He came to invite the lost into communion with the Father—not by force, but by love.

Christ touched the unclean. He forgave the guilty. He loved His enemies. He died for those who mocked Him. This is not a new picture of God—it is the perfect revelation of the God who has always been.

“He who has seen Me has seen the Father.”
John 14:9


And yet, Christ’s earthly mission was not the end of this love being poured out—it was the beginning.

“The love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us.”
Romans 5:5

The same love that formed the world, fulfilled the Law, and conquered death is now within the believer—through the indwelling presence of the Holy Spirit. The Spirit does not offer us a memory of God’s love, but its living presence. He empowers us to walk in love, not as the world defines it, but as Christ demonstrated it.

The fruit of the Spirit begins with love (Galatians 5:22), because love is the root of Kingdom life. It is the proof of discipleship, the fulfillment of the Law, and the mark of divine rebirth.


The early Church knew this well.

They did not follow Christ because He offered them safety or favor in the eyes of the empire. They followed Him because they were convinced of His love—even to death. The Apostolic Fathers wrote about love not as a doctrine to be debated, but a truth to be obeyed.

Clement of Alexandria: “God is good and alone is good… and the good is essentially loving.” (Stromata IV)
Irenaeus of Lyons: “He became what we are, that He might bring us to be even what He is.” (Against Heresies V)
Ignatius of Antioch: “Our God, Jesus Christ… is the expression of the Father’s love, made flesh.” (Letter to the Ephesians)

They knew what the Scriptures taught.
They received what the Spirit gave.
They walked as Christ walked.
And they bore witness to a world that did not know this kind of love.


If we are to understand anything else in this series—God’s invitations, His warnings, His commands, and His promises—we must start here:

God is love.
His love is the source of your existence.
His Son is the standard of that love.
His Spirit is the sustainer of it in your life.

Anything less than this is not the gospel.


Sources & References

Scripture (NASB 1995):

  • 1 John 4:8 – “God is love.”
  • 2 Timothy 2:13 – “If we are faithless, He remains faithful…”
  • Romans 5:8 – “But God demonstrates His own love…”
  • John 14:9 – “He who has seen Me has seen the Father.”
  • Romans 5:5 – “The love of God has been poured out…”
  • Galatians 5:22 – “But the fruit of the Spirit is love…”

Ante-Nicene Sources:

  • Clement of Alexandria, Stromata (Book IV, Chapter 18) – “God is good and alone is good… and the good is essentially loving.”
    [Available at: CCEL.org or NewAdvent.org]
  • Irenaeus, Against Heresies (Book V, Preface) – “He became what we are, that He might bring us to be even what He is.”
    [Available at: NewAdvent.org/fathers/0103500.htm]
  • Ignatius of Antioch, Letter to the Ephesians (Chapter 18) – “Our God, Jesus Christ… is the expression of the Father’s love, made flesh.”
    [Available at: EarlyChristianWritings.com]
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Devotions, Family Devotionals

🏡 Kingdom Family Devotional — Day 42

“When you give to the poor, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing…”

Matthew 6:3 NASB1995

🌿 A Quiet-Giving Home

Jesus teaches us that giving should come from the heart—not from a desire to be noticed. As a family, this is a chance to model humility, generosity, and trust in God to see and reward.

When we give without announcing it, we train our children to value what matters most: God’s approval.

🕯 A Mother’s Role

Encourage your children to give secretly and cheerfully. Celebrate their heart, not their action. Lead by example in finding joy in quiet obedience.

📖 Talk About It:

  • Why is secret giving special in God’s eyes?
  • How can we give this week without telling anyone else?

🪡 Kingdom Practice

Plan one anonymous act of giving as a family. Whether a meal, donation, or kind gesture—let it be your family’s secret offering to the Lord.

✍️ Prayer:

Lord, help our family give in secret with joyful hearts. Let us care more about Your reward than human praise. Amen.

Devotions, Teen Devotions

😎 Kingdom Teen Devotional — Day 42

“Don’t let your left hand know what your right hand is doing…”

Matthew 6:3 NASB1995

🌟 Quiet Over Clout

The world says, “Post it or it didn’t happen.” Jesus says, “Hide it, and I’ll reward it.” Giving isn’t a performance—it’s worship.

Real generosity doesn’t need credit. If God sees it, that’s enough. The quiet giver isn’t insecure—they’re rooted.

🖊 Real Talk:

  • Why do you think Jesus wants giving to stay private?
  • When have you seen or done a secret act of generosity?

✨ Try This:

Give something this week—time, money, help—and don’t tell anyone. Let it be between you and the Father.

✍️ Prayer:

Father, help me care more about Your eyes than people’s praise. Make me generous and quiet about it. Amen.

Children's Devotionals, Devotions

🧢 Kingdom Kids Devotional — Day 42

“When you give to someone in need, don’t show off.”

Matthew 6:2 (Paraphrased)

😊 Give Quietly

Jesus wants us to help others, not to get attention but to show love. When you give something to someone who needs it, do it secretly. That makes God smile!

You don’t have to brag. God sees every kind and generous thing you do.

🏛 Long Ago…

Christian kids were taught to give and help without expecting praise. They knew that God was always watching, and that was enough.

💡 Think About It:

  • Can I give something to someone without telling anyone?
  • How does it feel to do a kind thing just for God?

✨ Let’s Pray:

Jesus, help me to be kind and generous even when no one sees. I want to give with a happy heart for You. Amen.

Devotions, Women's Devotionals

🌿 Kingdom Living Devotional — Day 42

“When you give to the poor, do not sound a trumpet before you… so that your giving will be in secret; and your Father who sees what is done in secret will reward you.”

Matthew 6:2–4 NASB1995

🌟 Hidden Generosity, Eternal Reward

Jesus assumes His people will give—but how we give matters. Kingdom generosity isn’t about gaining credit. It’s about reflecting the generous heart of our Father, who gives without fanfare.

Giving in secret keeps pride out and keeps the focus on love. When no one knows but God, our faith deepens and our reward is eternal.

🔗 Ante-Nicene Reflection

The early church quietly supported widows, orphans, and the poor—not to gain attention, but to honor Christ. Anonymous generosity was the norm, not the exception.

💭 Reflect

  • Am I more focused on being generous or being noticed?
  • What can I give in secret this week to reflect my Father?

✨ Prayer

Lord, let my giving reflect Your heart. Purify my motives. Make me a joyful, humble giver who loves in secret for Your glory. Amen.

Kingdom Discipleship, Kingdom Living

The War Within — Spirit vs. Flesh

Understanding the Internal Battle Every Believer Faces

Every believer knows this war.

You want to do what’s right—and yet, something pulls you back. You long for holiness—but find habits that war against it. You feel the Spirit drawing you toward God—and the flesh dragging you the other way.

“For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh…”
Galatians 5:17


This War Is Not a Sign of Failure—it’s a Sign of Life

The flesh and the Spirit do not coexist peacefully. When the Spirit enters you, a war begins. The presence of this struggle does not mean you’re failing—it means you’re alive in Christ.

“The one who has been born anew has begun to be at war with his former master.”
Tertullian, On Repentance


The Flesh Is Not Your Body—it’s Your Old Self

The Bible doesn’t speak of “flesh” merely as physical. It is the sinful nature, the old man, the unrenewed self that resists the things of God.

  • It resists prayer
  • Craves comfort and control
  • Loves sin and hates correction
  • Operates in pride, lust, fear, and selfishness

“Do not give the flesh what it demands, lest it grow stronger and lead you into slavery again.”
Hermas, Mandate 6


The Spirit Empowers Victory, Not Just Restraint

God has not called you to live in tension forever. The Holy Spirit empowers you to:

  • Recognize the war
  • Say no to sin
  • Cultivate hunger for righteousness
  • Walk in newness of life

“If by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live.”
Romans 8:13

Victory begins with surrender, not willpower. It’s not about trying harder—it’s about yielding more deeply to the Spirit within.


What We Can Learn

  1. The struggle between flesh and Spirit is normal—and necessary.
  2. Victory doesn’t come through the flesh, but through the Spirit.
  3. Your old nature was crucified—don’t let it rule.
  4. Surrender is the pathway to freedom.

Sources:

  • The Holy Bible — Galatians 5:16–25; Romans 8:1–13; 2 Corinthians 10:3–5; Ephesians 4:22–24
  • Tertullian, On Repentance
  • Hermas, Mandate 6
  • Clement of Alexandria, Exhortation to the Heathen
  • Didache, ch. 3
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Devotions, Teen Devotions

😎 Kingdom Teen Devotional — Day 41

“Don’t do your good deeds in front of others to be seen by them.”

Matthew 6:1 (Paraphrased)

🌟 Applause or Obedience?

There’s a temptation to post every good deed, to seek recognition for every act of kindness. But Jesus flips the script: the reward you want from people might be the only one you get.

He invites you to something deeper—living for an Audience of One. The quiet, obedient life seen by the Father is worth more than a thousand likes.

🖊 Real Talk:

  • Do I serve because it’s right, or because it’s seen?
  • Where is God calling me to be faithful in secret?

✨ Try This:

Do something kind this week that no one knows about. Make it a secret between you and God.

✍️ Prayer:

Lord, teach me to love the hidden path. I want to live for Your eyes, not theirs. Purify my motives and make me faithful in secret places. Amen.

Children's Devotionals, Devotions

🧢 Kingdom Kids Devotional — Day 41

“Don’t do good things just so people will see you.”

Matthew 6:1 (Paraphrased)

😊 Do It for God

Jesus says that when we do something good, it shouldn’t be to get a gold star or a big cheer. We should do it because we love God!

When no one is looking, and you still choose to help, share, or obey—God sees it. And He is happy with you.

🏛 Long Ago…

Early Christian children were taught to be humble and kind even when no one noticed. They learned that God sees everything done with love.

💡 Think About It:

  • Do I only do good things when someone is watching?
  • Can I be kind today even if no one claps or sees it?

✨ Let’s Pray:

Jesus, help me do the right thing even when no one sees. I want to please You most of all. Amen.


Devotions, Family Devotionals

🏡 Kingdom Family Devotional — Day 41

“Beware of practicing your righteousness before men to be noticed by them…”

— Matthew 6:1 NASB1995

🌸 Quiet Faithfulness

Kingdom families don’t need a spotlight to do what’s right. Jesus tells us that good works should be done from a pure heart—not for praise, but for God.

As a family, we want to serve quietly, give generously, and obey joyfully—even when no one sees. Because the Father sees. And that’s what matters most.

🕯 A Mother’s Role

Model unseen obedience. When you choose humility, generosity, or patience without fanfare, you show your children that God’s approval is enough.

📖 Talk About It:

Why do we sometimes want people to notice our good deeds?

How can we practice doing things for God’s eyes alone?

🪡 Kingdom Practice

This week, each family member chooses one act of kindness to do in secret. At the end of the week, share how it felt to do something just for God.

✍️ Prayer:

Lord, help our family love quiet faithfulness. May our hearts seek Your reward above all. Teach us to live for Your glory, not our own. Amen.

Devotions, Women's Devotionals

🌿 Kingdom Living Devotional — Day 41

“Beware of practicing your righteousness before men to be noticed by them; otherwise you have no reward with your Father who is in heaven.”

Matthew 6:1 NASB1995

🕵️️ The Hidden Life That God Sees

Jesus shifts from external action to internal motive. Even good deeds can be self-serving when done for applause. Kingdom righteousness isn’t for performance; it’s for the pleasure of the Father.

The desire to be seen is natural, but Jesus calls us to live for the unseen God who rewards what is done in secret. Living before His eyes alone purifies our motives and deepens our intimacy with Him.

🔗 Ante-Nicene Reflection

Early Christians lived humbly, often serving in obscurity. Their faithfulness wasn’t paraded; it was hidden in everyday acts of mercy, hospitality, and generosity—all done unto the Lord.

💭 Reflect

  • Do I crave recognition more than obedience?
  • Am I willing to be unseen if it means being faithful?

✨ Prayer

Father, teach me to desire Your reward above all others. Help me to live quietly, faithfully, and joyfully before Your eyes alone. Amen.