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God Is Love: The Source, Standard, and Sustainer of True Love

From the series “The Love of God: Revealed, Received, and Radiated”

If we begin anywhere else, we will get everything else wrong.

God’s love is not just one part of who He is. He is not love in balance with other traits, as though His mercy and His justice take turns. Scripture doesn’t leave that option open. It says plainly and without apology: “God is love” (1 John 4:8).

That statement does not mean God overlooks sin. It does not mean He is permissive or pliable. It means that everything He does—whether mercy or judgment, kindness or discipline—flows from a heart that is eternally loving, eternally faithful, and eternally holy.

God is not waiting to become more loving.
He is not learning to be more gracious.
He is not stirred by your behavior into affection.
He is love—unchanging, eternal, and perfect.

The world has taught many of us to view God’s love as uncertain. It offers a version of God who is moody, conditional, and temperamental—always watching and waiting to withdraw from the sinner or the struggling saint. But the love of God is not like the love of men. It does not fluctuate. It cannot be manipulated. It flows from His being—not from your performance.

“If we are faithless, He remains faithful, for He cannot deny Himself.”
2 Timothy 2:13

God’s love was not awakened by creation—it is the reason for it. It was not born at the cross—it was revealed there. And it is not sustained by our strength—but by His unchanging character.


To see this love clearly, we must look at the Son.

“God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.”
Romans 5:8

The life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ reveal the Father’s love—not a sentimental emotion, but a holy, pursuing compassion that lays itself down for the undeserving.

Jesus did not come to change God’s mind about you. He came to show you what had always been true about God’s heart. He came to seek and to save. He came to serve and to give. He came to call, not to coerce. He came to invite the lost into communion with the Father—not by force, but by love.

Christ touched the unclean. He forgave the guilty. He loved His enemies. He died for those who mocked Him. This is not a new picture of God—it is the perfect revelation of the God who has always been.

“He who has seen Me has seen the Father.”
John 14:9


And yet, Christ’s earthly mission was not the end of this love being poured out—it was the beginning.

“The love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us.”
Romans 5:5

The same love that formed the world, fulfilled the Law, and conquered death is now within the believer—through the indwelling presence of the Holy Spirit. The Spirit does not offer us a memory of God’s love, but its living presence. He empowers us to walk in love, not as the world defines it, but as Christ demonstrated it.

The fruit of the Spirit begins with love (Galatians 5:22), because love is the root of Kingdom life. It is the proof of discipleship, the fulfillment of the Law, and the mark of divine rebirth.


The early Church knew this well.

They did not follow Christ because He offered them safety or favor in the eyes of the empire. They followed Him because they were convinced of His love—even to death. The Apostolic Fathers wrote about love not as a doctrine to be debated, but a truth to be obeyed.

Clement of Alexandria: “God is good and alone is good… and the good is essentially loving.” (Stromata IV)
Irenaeus of Lyons: “He became what we are, that He might bring us to be even what He is.” (Against Heresies V)
Ignatius of Antioch: “Our God, Jesus Christ… is the expression of the Father’s love, made flesh.” (Letter to the Ephesians)

They knew what the Scriptures taught.
They received what the Spirit gave.
They walked as Christ walked.
And they bore witness to a world that did not know this kind of love.


If we are to understand anything else in this series—God’s invitations, His warnings, His commands, and His promises—we must start here:

God is love.
His love is the source of your existence.
His Son is the standard of that love.
His Spirit is the sustainer of it in your life.

Anything less than this is not the gospel.


Sources & References

Scripture (NASB 1995):

  • 1 John 4:8 – “God is love.”
  • 2 Timothy 2:13 – “If we are faithless, He remains faithful…”
  • Romans 5:8 – “But God demonstrates His own love…”
  • John 14:9 – “He who has seen Me has seen the Father.”
  • Romans 5:5 – “The love of God has been poured out…”
  • Galatians 5:22 – “But the fruit of the Spirit is love…”

Ante-Nicene Sources:

  • Clement of Alexandria, Stromata (Book IV, Chapter 18) – “God is good and alone is good… and the good is essentially loving.”
    [Available at: CCEL.org or NewAdvent.org]
  • Irenaeus, Against Heresies (Book V, Preface) – “He became what we are, that He might bring us to be even what He is.”
    [Available at: NewAdvent.org/fathers/0103500.htm]
  • Ignatius of Antioch, Letter to the Ephesians (Chapter 18) – “Our God, Jesus Christ… is the expression of the Father’s love, made flesh.”
    [Available at: EarlyChristianWritings.com]
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Love Empowered: The Holy Spirit and the Life of Christ Within

From the series “The Love of God: Revealed, Received, and Radiated”

It is one thing to speak of the love of God.
It is another to receive it.
But it is something far more profound to live it.

The love that created the world, the love that was nailed to a cross, is not meant to remain distant—admired but unreachable. The risen Christ did not ascend to leave us longing. He sent the Holy Spirit to abide with us, teach us, and form His love within us.

“The love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us.”
Romans 5:5

This is not a metaphor.
It is not a poetic way of saying we feel better when we believe.
It is the supernatural reality of regeneration.

Through the Holy Spirit, the love of God ceases to be a doctrine we study and becomes a presence we carry.


Many speak of love, but very few walk in it.
Why?
Because it cannot be manufactured by discipline, religious knowledge, or human willpower.

The love that forgives enemies, blesses persecutors, shows mercy to the undeserving, and remains faithful in suffering is not natural. It is the result of divine indwelling.

“But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you…”
Matthew 5:44

“By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”
John 13:35

These are not ideals for the spiritually gifted—they are commands for every believer. But without the Spirit, they are impossible.


When the Holy Spirit takes up residence in a believer, He does not merely convict and comfort. He conforms us to the image of Christ. He produces what we cannot:

“The fruit of the Spirit is love…”
Galatians 5:22

Notice where it begins: love. Not a feeling. Not attraction. Not tolerance.
A supernatural, self-denying, enemy-forgiving, holiness-seeking love that mirrors the life of Jesus Christ.

It is this kind of love that stunned the Roman Empire. The early Christians didn’t argue the culture into submission—they loved their enemies, cared for the sick during plagues, rescued abandoned infants, and refused to curse their executioners. And this wasn’t because of their willpower. It was the Spirit of Christ within them.


Tertullian (c. 160–220 AD) recorded that the pagans exclaimed:
“See how they love one another… and how ready they are to die for one another!”
Apology, Chapter 39

They loved with a kind of love the world could not explain—because it did not originate in them.
It came from heaven.
It flowed from a Person.
And it burned even when they were burned at the stake.


This is the love that dwells in every true follower of Christ.

It is not optional.
It is not theoretical.
It is not silent.

Where the Spirit is, there is love. And not merely for the brethren. The true test of love is not how we treat our friends, but how we treat our enemies.

“If anyone says, ‘I love God,’ and hates his brother, he is a liar…”
1 John 4:20

The early Church didn’t love one another because it made sense. They loved one another because the Spirit of the risen Christ had made them one. They didn’t love enemies to win debates—they loved them because they had died with Christ, and it was no longer they who lived, but He who lived in them.


This is what the Holy Spirit does.
He makes the love of God a living reality—poured out, overflowing, unstoppable.

Without Him, we cannot love as Christ loves.
With Him, we cannot help it.

Sources & References

Love Empowered: The Holy Spirit and the Life of Christ Within

Scripture (NASB 1995):

  • Romans 5:5 – “The love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit…”
  • Galatians 5:22 – “The fruit of the Spirit is love…”
  • Matthew 5:44 – “Love your enemies…”
  • John 13:35 – “By this all men will know…”
  • 1 John 4:20 – “If anyone says, ‘I love God,’ and hates his brother, he is a liar…”

Ante-Nicene Sources:

  • Tertullian, Apology, Chapter 39.
    “See how they love one another… and how ready they are to die for one another!”
    [Available at: NewAdvent.org/fathers/0301.htm]
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God Is Love: The Everlasting Compassion of Our Father

In a world full of brokenness, confusion, and unanswered questions, one truth remains unshaken: God is love. This declaration is not a passing sentiment or poetic phrase—it is the very nature of the One who created us. Scripture reveals this truth plainly, consistently, and powerfully from Genesis to Revelation. Yet, some theological perspectives have raised the question: Does God only love those who are already His?

Let us answer that not with human reasoning, but with the full counsel of God’s Word.

“The one who does not love does not know God, for God is love.”
— 1 John 4:8

The statement “God is love” does not mean that God merely shows love, but that love is the essence of His being. He cannot be anything other than who He is. His justice, His mercy, His holiness—all flow out of His perfect love. This love is not conditional upon our worthiness or position. It is who He has always been, even when we were still far off.

“But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.”
— Romans 5:8

God’s love is not triggered by our faith—it is revealed in His initiative. He sent His Son to die while we were still sinners. That means God’s love was extended to us even when we were lost, rebellious, and unbelieving. It is because of that love that we even had the opportunity to repent and believe.

“For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.”
— John 3:16

The word “world” speaks of humanity as a whole—fallen, undeserving, and estranged. And yet, God so loved this world that He gave what was most precious to Him. This was not selective love for a few, but a sacrificial love offered to all. The passage does not say God loved “the righteous,” or “the believing,” but the world.

“When He approached Jerusalem, He saw the city and wept over it…”
— Luke 19:41

Jesus, the visible image of the invisible God, wept over those who rejected Him. He lamented their unwillingness to receive the peace He came to bring. Does God grieve over those He does not love? No. His tears were the overflow of divine compassion, even for the lost.

“But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.”
— Matthew 5:44–45

Jesus commands us to love our enemies because our Father in heaven does. He pours out kindness on both the righteous and the unrighteous. He is not distant or detached from the hurting, the stubborn, or the rebellious—He is actively showing them patience, kindness, and love, even as they resist Him.

“The Lord is not slow about His promise… but is patient toward you, not wishing for any to perish but for all to come to repentance.”
— 2 Peter 3:9

If God did not love those outside of Christ, there would be no reason for Him to be patient. But His patience flows from His loving desire that all would come to repentance. He tarries, not out of indifference, but out of longing.

“What man among you, if he has a hundred sheep and has lost one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine… and go after the one which is lost until he finds it?”
— Luke 15:4

The parable of the lost sheep paints a vivid picture of a Shepherd who seeks—not because the sheep earned it, but because they are His and He loves them. God does not wait for the lost to find Him. He seeks, rescues, and rejoices over the one who is found.

It is because God loved us in our sin that we now walk in grace. It is because He extended mercy to us when we were blind that we now see. And it is because His love is faithful and true that we can proclaim His name to every tribe, tongue, and nation—offering the same love to all, without partiality.

“We love, because He first loved us.”
— 1 John 4:19

The love of God is not only something we receive—it is something we are called to reflect. The more we understand that God loved us while we were enemies, the more we are compelled to love others in the same way. This is not a suggestion. It is the way of the Kingdom.

When Jesus said to love our enemies, He wasn’t offering a lofty idea for a peaceful society. He was describing the culture of Heaven. To love our enemies is to act like our Father. It is to see people not as threats or failures, but as souls for whom Christ died.

On the cross, in agony, Jesus prayed, “Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing” (Luke 23:34). He loved not only His disciples, but those who mocked Him, beat Him, and drove nails through His hands. He did not wait for their repentance—He extended love while they were still enemies.

Stephen, the first martyr, followed the same example. As he was being stoned, he cried out, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them!” (Acts 7:60). Paul later wrote, “Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse” (Romans 12:14). This was not mere moral advice. It was the manifestation of a heart transformed by God’s love.

The early Church understood this well. From the time of Pentecost to the rise of imperial Christianity, they lived under persecution. Yet they were known—even by their enemies—as a people marked by love. Tertullian recorded that outsiders marveled, saying, “See how they love one another!” They prayed for their captors, forgave their executioners, and blessed their persecutors. Their love, even for enemies, testified to the power of the Gospel and turned the world upside down.

The Church today must recover this radical, Spirit-filled love. Not a love that approves of sin, but a love that lays down its life in truth, compassion, and mercy—even for those who hate us. To love as He loves is not weakness. It is warfare against the spirit of darkness. It is how the Kingdom advances—not by sword, but by sacrifice.

“Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.”
— 1 John 4:11

Let us be known—not for our arguments, strategies, or strength—but for our love. Not a love defined by the world, but by the cross. A love that prays for enemies, endures persecution, and reflects the character of our Father. The kind of love that can only be born of the Spirit.

This is the love that overcomes the world.

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