Kingdom Discipleship, Love In Action

Be Merciful, Just as Your Father is Merciful

From the series “The Commands of Christ — Love in Action”


“Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.”
— Luke 6:36, NASB1995


In a world that rewards retaliation and celebrates harshness as strength, Jesus calls His disciples to something radically different: mercy. Not a vague kindness. Not a passive tolerance. But divine, active mercy—poured out in the likeness of our Father in heaven.

This mercy isn’t based on merit. God doesn’t wait for us to be worthy of His compassion. While we were still sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:8). That’s the measure of His mercy—and the model for ours.

The command is not simply to be merciful, but as your Father is merciful. This is not human compassion raised slightly; it is a divine attribute extended through Spirit-filled people. And it reaches beyond those who love us. Jesus makes that clear. The merciful do good to those who hate them. They bless those who curse them. They pray for those who mistreat them (Luke 6:27–28).

The early Church understood this calling well. Their mercy wasn’t limited to emotional sympathy—it translated into action. They rescued abandoned infants from Roman garbage heaps, cared for plague victims when others fled, and fed both Christian and pagan neighbors during famines. Their acts of mercy confused the empire and reflected the heart of their King.

They were not trying to earn salvation. They were living out the nature of the One who saved them.

Tertullian observed, “It is our care of the helpless, our practice of lovingkindness, that brands us in the eyes of many of our opponents. ‘Look!’ they say, ‘How they love one another!’” (Apology, ch. 39). Mercy was their reputation.

And it should be ours.

We don’t get to choose who deserves mercy. We simply extend it—because our Father has extended it to us. The merciful show God’s heart to a hardened world. They reflect His character and reveal His kingdom.

So, we must ask ourselves: Do our enemies see mercy in us? Do the broken, the ignored, the undeserving find the compassion of the Father in our lives?

Mercy does not ignore justice. But it doesn’t wield justice as a sword of pride. It offers restoration, dignity, and love. It leans in when the flesh wants to pull away. It opens its arms when fear says to close them.

This is what the Kingdom looks like.


Sources:

Luke 6:27–36, NASB1995

Romans 5:6–8

Tertullian, Apology, Chapter 39

The Didache (ch. 1–2): Early instructions on showing mercy to the poor, forgiving quickly, and imitating the meekness of Christ

Lactantius, Divine Institutes, Book 6: Advocates for mercy as a divine attribute believers must mirror


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Abide in Me

From the series “The Commands of Christ — Love in Action”

“Abide in Me, and I in you… Just as the branch cannot bear fruit of itself unless it remains in the vine, so neither can you unless you abide in Me.”
John 15:4, NASB 1995

To love Christ is to remain in Him.
Not to visit Him occasionally.
Not to return when life gets hard.
But to dwell—continually, deeply, and dependently.

Abiding is not passive.
It is a posture of total surrender, daily communion, and unwavering obedience.
It is the root of every fruitful life.

“If anyone does not abide in Me, he is thrown away like a branch and dries up…”
John 15:6

This is not a threat—it is reality.
Life apart from Christ is not neutral. It is death.


We don’t abide by attending services or checking boxes.
We abide by staying connected—in the Word, in prayer, in repentance, in worship, and in love.

“The one who says he abides in Him ought himself to walk in the same manner as He walked.”
1 John 2:6

This is not just about intimacy—it’s about imitation.
To abide in Christ is to walk like Christ.
To remain in His love is to obey His commands (John 15:10).


The early Church lived this way.
They had no buildings, budgets, or celebrity leaders.
But they had communion with Christ—and it sustained them through fire, famine, and persecution.

Ignatius of Antioch (c. AD 107):
“Abide in Christ, and He will abide in you… cling to Him, for apart from Him there is no life.”
Letter to the Trallians, Ch. 8

Clement of Alexandria (c. AD 195):
“He who remains in the Word of God abides in Christ… and the fruit he bears is love, holiness, and endurance.”
Stromata, Book VI

They didn’t chase emotional highs.
They pursued daily obedience.
They didn’t seek control.
They surrendered.

Because abiding is not about doing more—it’s about staying rooted.


We live in a world of constant motion, endless distraction, and spiritual drift.
But Christ still says:

“Abide in Me.”

Remain when it’s dry.
Remain when it’s costly.
Remain when the fruit is slow.
Remain when the world tempts you to disconnect.

Because love remains.
Love abides.
And Christ abides in those who walk with Him.


📚 Sources & References

Abide in Me

Scripture (NASB 1995):

  • John 15:4–6, 10 – “Abide in Me… and I in you…”
  • 1 John 2:6 – “The one who says he abides in Him…”

Ante-Nicene Sources:

  • Ignatius of Antioch, Letter to the Trallians, Ch. 8.
    “Cling to Him, for apart from Him there is no life.”
    [Available at: EarlyChristianWritings.com]
  • Clement of Alexandria, Stromata, Book VI.
    “He who remains in the Word of God abides in Christ…”
    [Available at: CCEL.org or NewAdvent.org]
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Watch and Be Ready

From the series “The Commands of Christ — Love in Action”

“Be dressed in readiness, and keep your lamps lit… for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.”
Luke 12:35, 40, NASB 1995

Jesus didn’t call us to guess the day—He called us to be ready every day.
This is the command not of a distant ruler, but of a loving Bridegroom who desires a faithful and prepared Bride.

To be ready is to live alert.
To stay dressed for action.
To keep your lamp burning—not just in moments of emotion, but in the daily rhythm of love, obedience, repentance, and prayer.


“Now, little children, remain in Him, so that when He appears, we may have confidence and not shrink away from Him in shame at His coming.”
1 John 2:28

We are not waiting in fear.
We are watching in faith.

But readiness is not passive. It is active.
It is the life of a servant whose hands are at the plow, whose oil is stocked, whose eyes are on the horizon, and whose heart beats with expectation.


The early Church lived this way.
They believed Jesus could return at any moment, and they ordered their lives accordingly.
They were not obsessed with prophecy charts.
They were obsessed with holiness and perseverance.

The Epistle of Barnabas (c. AD 100):
“Let us be alert in the last days… that we may not be found sleeping, but walking in love and righteousness.”
Ch. 4

The Shepherd of Hermas (2nd century):
“Blessed are those who endure in expectation of Him… who watch and do not let their garments be stained while they wait.”
Similitude IX


To obey this command is to:

  • Stay awake spiritually
  • Live with urgency
  • Be faithful in the unseen moments
  • Cast off distractions and worldliness
  • Walk in the fear of the Lord
  • Keep your oil full—not borrowed

Jesus didn’t say, “Get ready when you see signs.”
He said, “Be ready, for you do not know the hour.”

Readiness is the test of love.
Those who love Him are waiting for Him.
Those who obey Him are preparing for Him.

This is not paranoia.
It’s devotion.

And it’s commanded.


📚 Sources & References

Watch and Be Ready

Scripture (NASB 1995):

  • Luke 12:35, 40 – “Be dressed in readiness… the Son of Man is coming…”
  • 1 John 2:28 – “Remain in Him, so that when He appears…”

Ante-Nicene Sources:

  • The Epistle of Barnabas, Ch. 4.
    “Let us be alert in the last days… walking in love and righteousness.”
    [Available at: EarlyChristianWritings.com]
  • The Shepherd of Hermas, Similitude IX.
    “Blessed are those who endure… who watch and do not stain their garments.”
    [Available at: CCEL.org]

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Do Not Store Up Treasures on Earth

From the series “The Commands of Christ — Love in Action”

“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth… but store up for yourselves treasures in heaven.”
Matthew 6:19–20, NASB 1995

Love for Christ changes what we value.
It reorders the heart.
It frees us from chasing what cannot last and calls us to invest in what cannot be lost.

Jesus didn’t say, “Give everything away so you’ll be poor.”
He said, “Don’t treasure the temporary.”

Because where your treasure is, your heart will be also (Matthew 6:21).
And Jesus wants your heart.


Earthly treasures fade.
Moths eat, rust corrodes, thieves break in.
The kingdoms of this world will fall, and all that seemed secure will one day vanish.
But those who belong to Christ are called to live for another Kingdom—one that cannot be shaken.

To love Christ is to loosen our grip on this world.
Not because the things of earth are evil, but because they are fleeting.


“Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth.”
Colossians 3:2

The early Church lived this out radically.
They weren’t known for wealth or power—but for generosity and simplicity.
They did not store up—they gave freely.
Because they believed Jesus was coming soon, and they longed to be found faithful.

Justin Martyr (c. AD 150):
“We who once valued wealth above all now bring what we have to share… so that none among us may suffer need.”
First Apology, Ch. 14

Tertullian (c. AD 200):
“What we have is not hoarded in chests, but distributed for the poor… for we know it is better to have treasure in heaven than gold in hand.”
Apology, Ch. 39

Their hearts were not tied to empires or coin purses.
They lived as strangers and exiles on the earth (Hebrews 11:13).
And the world saw something in them it could not understand:
Contentment. Joy. Eternity in view.


We cannot say we love Christ and still live like the world is our home.
We cannot cling to earthly security and walk in faith.
We cannot hoard what was given to us to bless others.

This doesn’t mean every Christian must take a vow of poverty.
But it does mean every Christian must take a vow of stewardship—a willingness to use every gift, dollar, and possession for the glory of God and the good of His people.


“Sell your possessions and give to charity; make yourselves money belts that do not wear out… an unfailing treasure in heaven.”
Luke 12:33

This is not loss. It is wisdom.
It is investing in eternity.

To obey this command is to trust God more than money.
It is to live free from the grip of materialism.
And it is to live ready—eyes fixed on a Kingdom that is coming soon.


📚 Sources & References

Do Not Store Up Treasures on Earth

Scripture (NASB 1995):

  • Matthew 6:19–21 – “Do not store up… treasures on earth…”
  • Colossians 3:2 – “Set your mind on the things above…”
  • Luke 12:33 – “Sell your possessions… treasure in heaven.”
  • Hebrews 11:13 – “Strangers and exiles on the earth.”

Ante-Nicene Sources:

  • Justin Martyr, First Apology, Ch. 14.
    “We bring what we have to share… none among us may suffer need.”
    [Available at: EarlyChristianWritings.com or CCEL.org]
  • Tertullian, Apology, Ch. 39.
    “What we have is not hoarded… we know it is better to have treasure in heaven…”
    [Available at: NewAdvent.org]
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Be Reconciled to Your Brother

From the series “The Commands of Christ — Love in Action”

“Therefore, if you are presenting your offering at the altar, and there you remember that your brother has something against you, leave your offering there… and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and present your offering.”
Matthew 5:23–24, NASB 1995

Worship does not bypass reconciliation.
God is not honored by offerings brought from an unforgiving heart.
Love that honors Christ must also seek peace with His people.

Jesus does not say, “If you are angry, go.”
He says, “If your brother has something against you…”
This is not about waiting to be approached. It is about taking responsibility—even when the pain is mutual, the fault is unclear, or the path feels awkward.


“If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all people.”
Romans 12:18

Reconciliation is not always possible.
But obedience always is.
We may not always restore the relationship, but we must remove the offense.

God does not want worship from hearts that are unwilling to be humbled.
He wants truth in the inner being (Psalm 51:6).
And that means going—not in pride, but in repentance.
Not to accuse, but to own.
Not to lecture, but to love.


The early Church knew that unity was not a bonus. It was a requirement.

The Didache (c. AD 50–100):
“Do not let the sun go down on your anger… and do not come together with a grudge in your heart. Let your sacrifice be pure.”
Didache, Ch. 14

Clement of Rome (c. AD 96):
“Let us put away the quarrels that arose from foolishness… let us be reconciled in Christ, and walk in the fear of the Lord.”
1 Clement, Ch. 51

They knew what we often forget:
Reconciliation is not a side issue.
It is part of what it means to be a holy priesthood, offering spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God (1 Peter 2:5).


Sometimes the hardest obedience is not confronting those who hurt us—
but seeking peace with those we’ve hurt.
Even if unintentionally.
Even if they misunderstood.
Even if it means bearing shame.

But this is the way of love.
This is the way of the cross.
And it is the command of Christ.


If we want to walk in the presence of God, we must not carry bitterness toward the people of God.
We must seek peace.
We must repent where we have sinned.
We must release where we have been wronged.

This is not weakness—it is worship.


📚 Sources & References

Be Reconciled to Your Brother

Scripture (NASB 1995):

  • Matthew 5:23–24 – “First be reconciled to your brother…”
  • Romans 12:18 – “If possible… be at peace with all people.”
  • Psalm 51:6 – “You desire truth in the innermost being.”
  • 1 Peter 2:5 – “A holy priesthood, offering spiritual sacrifices…”

Ante-Nicene Sources:

  • The Didache, Chapter 14.
    “Do not come together with a grudge in your heart… Let your sacrifice be pure.”
    [Available at: EarlyChristianWritings.com]
  • Clement of Rome, 1 Clement, Chapter 51.
    “Let us put away the quarrels… let us be reconciled in Christ.”
    [Available at: NewAdvent.org]
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Do Not Judge Hypocritically

From the series “The Commands of Christ — Love in Action”

“Do not judge, so that you will not be judged.”
Matthew 7:1, NASB 1995

This verse has become one of the most misused and misunderstood words of Christ—quoted by those who reject accountability and often avoided by those who are called to speak truth. But Jesus was not forbidding judgment. He was forbidding hypocrisy.

He was not calling His people to silence.
He was calling them to purity of heart before speaking.

“Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?”
Matthew 7:3

The command is not “never judge,” but “judge with righteous judgment.” (John 7:24)
To love as Christ commands is to speak truth—not with pride, but with humility.
Not with arrogance, but with a heart willing to be examined first.


Hypocritical judgment crushes.
It condemns without compassion.
It sees clearly in others but is blind to its own sin.
It says, “Let me fix you,” while refusing to be sanctified.

“First take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.”
Matthew 7:5

This is not a call to silence truth—it is a call to truth that flows from repentance.


The early Church knew this danger.
They preached boldly—but they also examined themselves continually.
They spoke of sin—but never from superiority.

Clement of Rome (c. AD 96):
“Let each of us examine himself first… for judgment must begin with the household of God.”
1 Clement, Ch. 56

The Didache (c. AD 50–100):
“Do not hate any man; but some you are to reprove, and others to pray for. Yet do nothing without examining yourself first.”
Didache, Ch. 2–3

Judgment without self-awareness is dangerous.
Correction without humility is damaging.
But silence in the name of comfort is not love—it is cowardice.


To obey Christ here is to walk a narrow path:
We are called to confront sin with clean hands and a broken heart.
We are called to uphold righteousness without self-righteousness.
We are called to correct others only as those who are also under correction.


So before we speak, we must kneel.
Before we confront, we must repent.
And if we are unwilling to let God deal with us first, we have no business pointing at the sins of others.

Because love does not seek to shame.
Love seeks to restore.
And judgment without mercy is not Kingdom love—it is Pharisaical pride.


📚 Sources & References

Do Not Judge Hypocritically

Scripture (NASB 1995):

  • Matthew 7:1–5 – “Do not judge… first take the log out of your own eye…”
  • John 7:24 – “Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment.”

Ante-Nicene Sources:

  • Clement of Rome, 1 Clement, Ch. 56.
    “Let each of us examine himself first… judgment must begin with the household of God.”
    [Available at: NewAdvent.org]
  • The Didache, Chapters 2–3.
    “Do not hate… do nothing without examining yourself first.”
    [Available at: EarlyChristianWritings.com]

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Take Up Your Cross Daily

From the series “The Commands of Christ — Love in Action”

“If anyone wants to come after Me, he must deny himself, take up his cross daily, and follow Me.”
Luke 9:23, NASB 1995

This is not a call to comfort.
It is not an invitation to moral improvement.
It is a summons to die.

To follow Christ is to walk the road He walked.
There is no other path to life but the one that leads through death—death to self, to sin, to pride, to reputation, to everything the world says is valuable.

The cross is not a symbol of inconvenience.
It is a tool of execution.

And Jesus didn’t say, “Take it up once.”
He said, “Daily.”


The command to deny yourself flies in the face of everything our culture worships.
The world says, “Love yourself. Express yourself. Exalt yourself.”
Christ says, “Crucify yourself.”

Not literally, but spiritually.
Not in despair, but in obedience.

“Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.”
Galatians 5:24

This is the heart of discipleship.
Not that we add Jesus to our lives—but that we surrender our lives to Him completely.


To take up your cross daily means you no longer belong to yourself.
Your time. Your body. Your rights. Your dreams.
All laid down in loving surrender.

“He died for all, so that those who live would no longer live for themselves, but for Him who died and rose on their behalf.”
2 Corinthians 5:15

The early Church did not water this down.
They didn’t lure people in with promises of ease.
They preached Christ—and Him crucified. And they embraced suffering, rejection, and even death, because they had already died to this world.


Ignatius of Antioch (c. AD 107):
“Let me be food for the wild beasts… that I may be found the pure bread of Christ. I no longer desire to live according to the flesh, but to suffer for Christ.”
Letter to the Romans, Ch. 4

Tertullian (c. AD 200):
“To bear the name of Christ is to bear the burden of the cross… not only in suffering but in denying our sinful nature daily.”
On the Resurrection of the Flesh, Ch. 23

They did not cling to their comfort.
They clung to the cross.
Because they knew: to lose your life for Christ is to find it.


This is not a one-time prayer.
It is a daily surrender.
It’s not about perfection—but persistence.

Every day, you wake up and lay your life down again.
Every day, you choose obedience over pride, holiness over comfort, truth over popularity.

And every day, the world may look at you and see loss.
But heaven sees love.

Because no one loves Christ more than the one who is willing to die for Him—and live for Him every single day.


📚 Sources & References

Take Up Your Cross Daily

Scripture (NASB 1995):

  • Luke 9:23 – “Deny yourself, take up your cross daily…”
  • Galatians 5:24 – “Those who belong to Christ have crucified the flesh…”
  • 2 Corinthians 5:15 – “No longer live for themselves, but for Him…”

Ante-Nicene Sources:

  • Ignatius of Antioch, Letter to the Romans, Ch. 4.
    “Let me be food for the wild beasts… I no longer desire to live according to the flesh.”
    [Available at: EarlyChristianWritings.com]
  • Tertullian, On the Resurrection of the Flesh, Ch. 23.
    “To bear the name of Christ is to bear the burden of the cross…”
    [Available at: NewAdvent.org]
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Love Your Neighbor as Yourself

From the series “The Commands of Christ — Love in Action”

“You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
Matthew 22:39, NASB 1995

This is not a peripheral command—it is the second greatest, according to Christ Himself. Everything written in the Law and the Prophets hangs on it. And yet it may be the most quoted, least obeyed words in the Church today.

Loving your neighbor is not a theory. It is not a metaphor. It is a command.

Not to admire others from afar.
Not to tolerate them from behind a smile.
But to love them—genuinely, practically, sacrificially.

“On these two commandments depend the whole Law and the Prophets.”
Matthew 22:40

The first command is to love God with all your heart. The second is the evidence that the first is true.


We cannot love God and hate people.
We cannot worship Christ and despise His image-bearers.
We cannot call ourselves faithful disciples while walking past the wounded, the poor, the lonely, or the inconvenient.

The command to love our neighbor is not based on their worthiness, but on God’s worthiness—on what He has done in us and what He now wants to do through us.


“For the entire Law is fulfilled in one word, in the statement: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’”
Galatians 5:14

This is love that walks across the street.
Love that listens when it would rather speak.
Love that gives when no one is watching.
Love that welcomes the stranger, feeds the hungry, prays for the broken, and seeks peace when offended.


The early Church did not love in theory. They loved in deed and truth.

The Epistle to Diognetus (2nd century):
“They share their table with all, but not their bed. They love all men, and are persecuted by all. They repay hatred with kindness… and do good to those who harm them.”
Chapter 5–6

Clement of Rome (c. AD 96):
“Let us be kind to one another according to the compassion and gentleness of Christ… let the strong care for the weak, and the rich provide for the poor, without boasting.”
1 Clement, Ch. 38

Their faith was visible. Their love was active. And their neighbors knew it.


Loving your neighbor means loving the people God has placed near you.
Not just your friends.
Not just the ones who think like you.
But the ones who inconvenience you.
The ones who have nothing to give you in return.
The ones who test your patience, hurt your pride, or sit in silence right next to you.

And yes, it includes the stranger.
Because you were once a stranger to God.
And He welcomed you.


Love your neighbor.
Not with mere sentiment, but with sacrificial mercy.
Not for recognition, but for Christ’s glory.
Not only in the easy moments, but especially in the hard ones.

This is the love that fulfills the Law.
This is the love that reflects our King.


📚 Sources & References

Love Your Neighbor as Yourself

Scripture (NASB 1995):

  • Matthew 22:39–40 – “You shall love your neighbor as yourself…”
  • Galatians 5:14 – “The whole Law is fulfilled in one word…”

Ante-Nicene Sources:

  • The Epistle to Diognetus, Chapters 5–6.
    “They love all men, and are persecuted by all… repay hatred with kindness.”
    [Available at: EarlyChristianWritings.com/diognetus.html]
  • Clement of Rome, 1 Clement, Chapter 38.
    “Let us be kind… let the strong care for the weak…”
    [Available at: NewAdvent.org/fathers/1010.htm]
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Forgive as You Have Been Forgiven

From the series “The Commands of Christ — Love in Action”

Love doesn’t keep score.
It doesn’t hold grudges, demand repayment, or wait for the apology it thinks it deserves.
Love forgives—completely, freely, and sacrificially.

“Forgive, and you will be forgiven.”
Luke 6:37, NASB 1995

This is not a gentle suggestion. It is a command from the lips of the One who would be betrayed, denied, beaten, and crucified—and who still cried out, “Father, forgive them.”

Forgiveness is not weakness.
It is not forgetting.
It is not denying the pain.
It is the power to cancel a debt out of reverence for the mercy we’ve been shown.


“Be kind to one another, compassionate, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.”
Ephesians 4:32

If you have been forgiven by Christ, then forgiveness is no longer optional—it is the overflow of new life.

When we withhold it, we are not just clinging to hurt—we are denying the very gospel we claim to believe.

“If you do not forgive other people, then your Father will not forgive your offenses.”
Matthew 6:15

These are sobering words. Not because forgiveness earns salvation—but because refusal to forgive proves we have not truly received the mercy of God.


The early Church knew this. They were slandered, persecuted, imprisoned—and yet they forgave.

The Martyrdom of Polycarp (AD 155):
“He prayed for all… even those who were about to execute him, remembering the words of his Lord.”
Chapter 14

Tertullian (c. AD 200):
“We repay injuries with kindness… and when we are cursed, we bless. We follow our Lord in this, and forgive so that we may be forgiven.”
Apology, Chapter 39

They forgave—not because it was easy, but because the cross had made it possible.


Forgiveness is not something we wait to feel.
It is a choice made in obedience to Christ.
It is not the same as reconciliation—but it is always the first step.

Some wounds run deep.
But the cross goes deeper.
And where Christ reigns, bitterness cannot remain.


You cannot carry the cross and a grudge at the same time.
You must choose.

To walk in love is to walk in forgiveness—
Even if they never say they’re sorry.
Even if they don’t understand what they did.
Even if the pain is still fresh.

Because Christ forgave you.
And He commands you to do the same.


📚 Sources & References

Forgive as You Have Been Forgiven

Scripture (NASB 1995):

  • Luke 6:37 – “Forgive, and you will be forgiven.”
  • Ephesians 4:32 – “Forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.”
  • Matthew 6:15 – “If you do not forgive… your Father will not forgive…”

Ante-Nicene Sources:

  • The Martyrdom of Polycarp, Chapter 14.
    “He prayed for all… even those who were about to execute him.”
    [Available at: EarlyChristianWritings.com or NewAdvent.org]
  • Tertullian, Apology, Chapter 39.
    “We repay injuries with kindness… we follow our Lord in this.”
    [Available at: NewAdvent.org]
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If You Love Me, Obey Me

From the series “The Commands of Christ — Love in Action”

The love of God is not a feeling we carry. It is a life we surrender.
It does not ask for admiration. It calls for obedience.
Love that does not obey is not love at all.

“If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.”
John 14:15, NASB 1995

Jesus didn’t say this to burden His disciples.
He said it to anchor them.
Because love for Christ is not measured in passion, eloquence, or emotion—but in faithfulness.

To follow Jesus is not to admire His teachings.
It is to obey His voice.


There is a kind of faith that applauds Christ from a distance.
There is a kind of love that sings on Sunday and wanders on Monday.
But the love that saves—the love born of the Spirit—is a love that listens, follows, repents, and obeys.

“Why do you call Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say?”
Luke 6:46

This is the question that echoes through every age of the Church.
Not, “Do you feel love for Me?”
But, “Will you do what I say?”


Jesus’ commands are not suggestions. They are not optional for the mature or the zealous. They are for every disciple who has been born of the Spirit and adopted into the family of God.

“For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments; and His commandments are not burdensome.”
1 John 5:3

True love doesn’t argue with the Word.
It doesn’t try to explain away obedience with theology.
It bows. It follows. It trusts.


The early Church understood this well. Their love was visible, not because they claimed it, but because they lived it.

The Didache (c. AD 50–100):
“There are two ways: one of life, one of death. This is the way of life: First, you shall love God who made you; second, your neighbor as yourself. And whatsoever you would not have done to you, do not do to another… walk according to the commandments.”
Didache, Ch. 1–2

Irenaeus (c. 180 AD):
“Those who love Him walk in His commandments. For love does not destroy the Law, but fulfills it through obedience.”
Against Heresies, Book IV

These early believers did not separate doctrine from practice.
They didn’t ask how little they could obey and still be saved.
They asked how deeply they could obey to show their love.


So what does this mean for us?

It means love cannot remain vague.
It must be expressed in action—in forgiving, in speaking truth, in denying self, in remaining faithful, in keeping His words even when it costs us everything.

It means discipleship isn’t just about knowing what Jesus said—it’s about doing it.

“But the one who has listened and has not acted accordingly is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation…”
Luke 6:49

And it means this: the clearest evidence that the love of God abides in us… is that we obey.


📚 Sources & References

If You Love Me, Obey Me

Scripture (NASB 1995):

  • John 14:15 – “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.”
  • 1 John 5:3 – “This is the love of God, that we keep His commandments…”
  • Luke 6:46–49 – “Why do you call Me, ‘Lord, Lord’ and do not do what I say?”

Ante-Nicene Sources:

  • The Didache, Chapters 1–2.
    “There are two ways… walk according to the commandments.”
    [Available at: EarlyChristianWritings.com]
  • Irenaeus, Against Heresies, Book IV.
    “Love does not destroy the Law, but fulfills it through obedience.”
    [Available at: NewAdvent.org]
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